(née Kuczkowski) Born to Eternal Life on June 16, 2025, at the age of 87.

Beloved wife of Raymond, the love of her life for 65 wonderful years. Devoted mother of the late Liz (Don) Koshak, Dan (Peggy) Knuese, Mark (Tammy) Knuese, Jeff (Roxane) Knuese, Darlene (Peter) Dummann, Tom (Michelle) Knuese, and Joe Knuese.

Proud grandmother of Ben (Jessie), Niko (Sarah), Danielle, the late Samantha Rae, Jacob, Lauren (Doug), Morgan (Collin), Alec, Brett (Katie), and Bree (Neil).

Cherished great-grandmother of Emma, Bradley, Aiden, Megan, Cora, Alivia, Dakota, Ella, and Callum.

Preceded in death by her parents, John and Gladys Kuczkowski; siblings Irene Kuczkowski, Beatrice (Robert) Klann, John Kuczkowski, and James (Terri) Kuczkowski.

Also lovingly remembered by Ray’s sister, Laura Koch and her late husband, Tom Koch.  

Ray met Shirley whom he lovingly referred to as “Dolly” through his sister Laura. They were married on May 28, 1960, sharing a fun and beautiful life together. She began her career at Wisconsin Bell and later worked at Save-U, grocery store in Menomonee Falls. All the while dedicating time and care into cooking, cleaning, and family gatherings.

A woman of deep faith and compassion, Shirley gave generously of her time. She volunteered at St. Anthonys in Menomonee Falls with the Christian Women’s group as a secretary, read to children at St. Bernadette’s in Milwaukee, and, alongside Ray, delivered meals through Meals on Wheels.

Shirley was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. She especially treasured time spent with her grandchildren, with New Year’s Eve holding a special place in her heart. Known for her wisdom and kindness, Shirley offered thoughtful advice, always encouraging others to give the benefit of the doubt and to live with faith and forgiveness. She was a loving aunt and a dear friend to many.

Her legacy of love, service, and faith will live on in all who knew her.

Visitation will be held at St. Anthony Catholic Church, N74W13604 Appleton Ave, Menomonee Falls, WI 53051, Friday June 27 from 10:00 a.m. until 11:45 a.m. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 12:00 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, memorials are appreciated to St. Anthony Catholic Church or Missionary Oblates of Mary Immaculate.