(née Butler) Born to Eternal Life on Tuesday, March 3, 2026 at the age of 88.

She is survived by her children Steve Neff, Theresa (John) Petushek, Linda (James) Pinnt, James (Rebecca) Neff, Karen (Richard) Adams, Joseph Neff, Anne Neff, and Michael (Sarah) Neff; her grandchildren Lindsay and Erich Petushek, Ben Pinnt, Sarah Goralski, Rebecca Rettler, Rachel Pinnt, Ariel Dean, Makayla Neff, Jacob and Jerad Adams, Carissa Barriere, Alexis and Aryanna Smith, and Samantha and Oliver Neff; and her 20 great grandchildren.

She is preceded in death by her parents Mabel and Theodore Butler, her son Bernard Neff, Jr, Bernard Neff, Sr, her sisters Mary Zunker and Susan Ligocki, and her brothers James Butler, Glen Butler, and Bob Butler, and her daughter-in-law Mary Neff. Further survived by nieces, nephews, other relatives, and friends.

Betty was a dedicated mother, grandmother, and great grandmother. She cooked at the Redemptorist Fathers, at Shorehaven for 20 years, and later at AngelsGrace Hospice. Everybody always raved about her cooking. She really was the best.

Visitation will be held from 10 AM until the time of Memorial Service at 11 AM on Thursday, March 12, 2026 at St. Catherine’s Catholic Church, W359 N8512 Brown St, Oconomowoc. She will be laid to rest at St. Jerome Catholic Cemetery in Oconomowoc. In lieu of flowers, memorials to St. Jude’s is appreciated.

Special thanks to her very special friend of many years Mindy Condella. Also a very special thanks to Shorehaven and their caregivers for everything they did for Betty.